Wednesday, February 24, 2010
rimming | gay rimming - Oral contact with the anus.
Rimming is a popular sexual practice involving the licking or kissing of the anus or the thrusting of ones tongue gently inside the anus of your partner. Since the lips and tongue are softer and warmer then the fingers, which can lead to more erotic sensations. Some people find rimming extremely pleasurable and stimulating while others find it distasteful. Rimming can be done in homosexual, heterosexual or bisexual partners although in porn it is most often referred to in gay sex.
Rimming, also referred to as anilingus or ass easting, is often performed as foreplay to anal intercourse since it both relaxes the area and sexually stimulates the person who is to be penetrated. It is also pleasurable by itself. Rimming is extremely popular in gay porn and is often done between the actors prior to anal sex. Since the anus carries bacteria, it is safest to use a dental dam when performing rimming although some simply cleanse the anus prior to sexual contact.
raunch | Types of sex and sexual play that are considered "dirtier" than other kinds of sex.
Raunch usually refers to gay sex or porn that the average person would find coarse, distasteful or vulgar. Raunch is closer to obscenity than other adult material and is likely to cause shock in many viewers.
Raunch includes activities that may cause disgust in some people but for others, this quality adds erotic stimulation. Raunch sex can include drinking semen out of glasses or used condoms, rolling around in urine or semen, spitting on someone or being spit upon, felching and receiving cum enemas.
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
pig sex | Gay pig sex is someone who is into extreme limits of sexual activity, in that they push the boundaries of what is, what isn't, acceptable.
There are actually two distinct meaning for the term.
(1.) A person who is eager for any type of sexual encounter, irrespective of most 'standard' limits. This can involve all sorts of sex, such as being into hard core fisting, into urine, and other 'extreme' fetishes, that have a sexual connotation.
It does not mean simply bareback sex, but the more edgier type of sex, and is generally used in the Bear or BDSM community as an alternative for 'nasty sex'. Simply put, a 'sex pig' is someone who will try anything, at least once. They are someone who seeks something new, no matter how great the risk might be, but they do set their own limits. It is just that those limits appear to the casual observer as being inconsequential.
(2.) A person who engages into sex with another, who is attracted to that person, for their lack of beauty or physical appearances.
Similar in nature to a 'pity fuck' or to 'dog fuck' which is generally associated with College Fraternity Hazing. That being where pledges are sent out to find the least attractive person, have sex with them, or in the more 'standard' format, to bring them to a dance or social gathering.
In some instances, it can be the person's unattractiveness that draws the other, that arouses them sexually which more 'good looking types' don't do. Generally this refers to where the idea of having sex with a person, who is considered repulsive. This can be due to many different physical traits, such as having acne, to being obese, and everything in between.
Monday, February 22, 2010
pegging | The anal penetration by another person, wearing a strap on dildo, where generally the person wearing the strap on is eager to stuff the receiver with more size and girth.
This is the penetration of the rectum, but a person wearing a device, that resembles a penis, and is worn around the waist, at the same level as a penis.
The phrase was originally coined for heterosexual practice. Very common in the Gay Pig world.
'Pegging' is however, the actual act itself, of penetration of a man's anus by someone (usually a woman) using a strap on dildo.
Some Top Men wear a strap to be able to give their bottom a bigger and bigger cock up the ass each time they fuck them in a play session. Strap ons come in all shapes and sizes.
The name was a winning entry, in 2001, in a straight sex column, where the contest was to find a name for the practice of a women penetrating their male partner's anus.
Prior to having a name, the act was depicted in the movie, Myra Breckinridge in the 1970's.
There are some variations, to pegging.
Some devices will include a butt plug, so that while the top, penetrating the male, heis own rectal region is being stimulated by a butt plug.
A dildo, regular or vibrating has also been known to be used both anally, while engaging in penetration, as well as vaginally. In fact, some enjoy the sensation of penetrating the male, while at the same time, having the feeling of being penetrated.
HANDBALLING / FISTING
handballing | Slang mainly used in North America, refers to anal sex, using the fist. To attempt to place one's entire hand, or both hands, into another's anus, and then balled up into a fist, though not always.
Not fully considered SM due to its need for both parties to provide assistance, in accomplishing the act.
Additionally, it can be a sexual activity on its own, where there is no dominant partner, meaning that both are seeking the satisfaction of being both the giver, and the receiver.
Fisting, while conjures the idea of a clenched hand being inserted into the rectum, the reality is that this usually is only done, once the hand is fully inserted.
Further, it does not always occur where all fingers of the hand, can be inserted, though still referred to as being fist fucked.
Proper lubricants, and nail care are essential. Long nails by the one doing the fisting is a major injury risk.
The Silent Duck is the technique most often used, where the person engaging in hand insertion makes a beak-like shape with their hand resembling a duck. Typically, fisting does not involve forcing the clenched fist into the rectum. Instead, all five fingers are kept straight and held as close together as possible (forming the beak-like "duck"), then slowly inserted into a well-lubricated rectum.
Double Fist/Side Prayer is a very advanced technique which only few are capable of achieving. The person engaging in hand insertion (the fister) places their hands palm to palm forming a position similar to one used when praying. Handler then turns theirs parallel to the floor, pointing fingers towards subject's vagina and/or anus.
Fistees who are more experienced may take two fists (double-fisting) in the rectum. In the case of double-fisting, pleasure is derived more from the stretching of the anus than from the thrusting (in-and-out) movement of hands. Some fistees also enjoy deeper penetration, in which the hand is inserted further into the sigmoid colon.
For anal fisting a lubricant is typically used. Crisco is a popular lubricant for this purpose amongst the gay/BDSM communities, with other personal lubricants such as J-Lube and silicone based products also very popular
felching | The act of taking semen or other liquids, from a person's anus,
then passing it on mouth to mouth.
To suck the semen, or other fluids, from a person's rectum, and to then share it, orally with others, or not. This can involve the swallowing or not of the fluids.
(In a Cultural Sense) Believed to have been conceived by the creators and cartoonists of Zap Comix in 1975.
To spread the butt cheeks, to then suck the anus, to draw the fluids into one's own mouth. Then to, either swallow it, or to pass it on to others in the room, mouth to mouth.
While close to 'rimming' it isn't the same. Rimming is more about stimulating the anus, while felching is the sucking of fluids.
Practice (Associated Acts): The licking of the anus, can be part of 'felching' but the primary act, is the sucking of fluids, (semen) from the anus.