What is a Dildo ???

Dildo Information

A dildo can be any object designed for insertion into the anus.  They have been around for about 2500 years - only the materials have changed.  Homo-sexual men use dildos for personal penetration or shared pleasure with their partners.   Sex with a dildo gives complete control over manipulation for personal pleasure.   It's a good way for a guy to keep his asshole toned for heavy duty assplay, a great way to have sex without a partner present and a dildo gives way to lots of creative possibilities.   There are so many different kinds of dildos that shopping can be a bit confusing.   The most important factor in your dildo purchase will be personal preference and the primary use.     Because dildos are dry and somewhat porous they absorb moisture so it is a good idea to always use a lubricant.   The muscles of the anus tighten and constrict.    If you are a first time user it's a good idea to lube up and do some external stimulation.   The tip of the dildo simulates the head of a penis so moving it up and down on the asshole will provide great stimulation.    Once you feel comfortable you can move on to internal insertion.   You can do a few tightening and constricting exercises of the ass muscles first.  When the blood is flowing through the area exhale and insert.   Do not insert further than is comfortable and remember that you control the experience.  Once you feel comfortable, you can start getting creative by placing the dildo on a surface that you can straddle.    If you are sharing a dildo with a partner be sure to use a condom.   Dildos come in all shapes and sizes and materials.  As with all adult toys personal preference is all that counts.   Cyberskin - is the hottest new material.  Called by other names such as Ultra Skin it is very realistic in texture and feels just like real skin.   Silicone - is considered the top of the line.  The reasons are the texture (soft, non-porus, velvety surface), easy to clean and it warms up to body temperature.   Realistics - is made of soft rubber material and colored with a realistic skin tone. Many adult stars are the models for these molds.  Jellies - are soft, pliable, have a translucent quality and come in lots of festive colors.  Because they are more rounded and smooth they have a different sensation that the standard texture dildo.   Lucite - are inflexible, easy to clean, nearly indestructible, but do not warm as easily to body temperature. They should be considered when you want hard penetration.   Curved dildos - these dildos have a rounded end for giving that special Spot stimulation.  After insertion, the curved end should be pointed towards the back.  A popular use for this kind of dildo is male prostate stimulation for organism.    Non-phallic Dildos - it doesn't have to be shaped like a penis to work and there are lots of alternatives to the penis-shaped dildo.   Anal Dildos (Butt Plugs or Anal Plugs) - are designed specifically for anal insertion.  They are flared at the base so as not to get lost.  They are manufactured out of the same dildo materials mentioned above and come in many different sizes and colors.  There are also anal probes which are are plugs mounted on a handle.    Double Dildos - are constructed with a head at each end.  This toy can be shared by two people at the same time inserted in the  anus at the same time.  Double dildos can be either the same size on either end or can be purchased with different dimensions.  The key to a double dildo experience is positioning and practice.   Strap Ons (Harness) - A dildo strap-on can either go around the hips or thigh.  The harness is made of straps that radiate out from a central ring where the dildo is placed and then radiates out resting against the body.  Only a dildo with a flared end will work.  The best strap ons are made of leather or nylon and have tight fitting rings, buckles or velcro.   When purchasing a strap on you need to consider the size of the dildo that you want to use.      The biggest mistake people make in purchasing a dildo is buying one that is too large.  While it is true that the body can accommodate many different sizes, keep in mind that a thinner shaft is easier to to maneuver.   If you have never purchased a dildo before, try the "Vegetable Test".  Clean up a carrot, zucchini and a cucumber and see what feels best - when you have decided what works then measure the length of the the vegetable (both length and diameter) and you will have your answer.  If you are not into vegetables the "Finger Test" will also work.  If you have recently had any kind of genital surgery or a long absence from sexual relations then smaller is better - you can always upgrade. The width of the dildo may be more important than the length.  Dildos vary in diameter ranging from 1" to 6".  As a rule of thumb 1 - 1 1/2" in diameter will be large enough. The most common dildo lengths are 6, 7, 8 and 9 inches. The average purchase if for a 6-8" shaft length.   If you like very deep penetration, choose a dildo 8" or longer. You can always thrust less deeply, but you cannot make a dildo that is too short reach further.      When looking at a dildo for anal play, remember that there is a curve in the rectum 3-5 inches in from the opening, so consider something shorter than 3" for starters.   After purchasing a dildo open the package and allow the it to air out so  any plastic odors will dissipate.  Wash in antiseptic soap and water. A stronger cleaning solution is a bleach and water solution of [1 part bleach to 9 parts water] but read the label for cleaning instructions before using bleach.   Your dildo will last longer and be easier to keep clean if you use it with a condom.  If you are using it by yourself, make sure that you wash the dildo with antiseptic soap and water after every use and especially moving it from one part of the body to another.  Warm, antiseptic soapy water and a thorough rinsing is an absolute MUST!  Silicon dildos can be boiled in hot water and even washed in the dish washer.  If you have been diagnosed with any type of STD, vaginatis or any other medical problem use a condom so that you do not keep re-infecting yourself.  Always use a condom when sharing toys.  Make sure to dry your dildo carefully - any left over moisture can cause growth of fungus or mold.  Store your dildo(s) in a cool, dry place.  Direct sunlight or excessive heat will cause disfiguration and fading.     If this is your first dildo purchase buy the less expensive model or buy several of the less expensive models and experiment till you find what is right for you.   .   Note on sizes: Measurements given are for length & diameter. Diameter tells you the thickness of an item, NOT the measurement around (circumference). To figure out the circumference multiply the diameter by Pi - 3.141593.

First, it is important to understand that uncleaned toys can transmit STD's and viruses and if you have any kind of STD or other medical problem you can end up re-infecting yourself if you do not keep anything that comes in contact with your body absolutely clean and germ free.  Toys and other aids will last a lot longer if they are maintained properly.  Here are some things you need to know about their care and maintenance:

After Purchase

Anything you purchase should first be inspected to make sure there are no rough edges.  This is especially true of anything that is plastic.  If you find a rough seam it can easily be smoothed down with a nail file.  If there are instructions, make sure you read the manufacturers directions and any tips they have about care and storage.  If the product is rubber you will probably want to let it air out so that any of the plastic odors will dissipate.  Always clean anything new before you use the product.  How you clean it will depend on the materials that the product is manufactured from.  Read the handy hints below.

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For All Toy Usage

If you are going to share toys or use the same toy anally, the most reliable way to prevent the spread of any disease is to use a condom.  Using a condom prevents having to interrupt to wash up and also will substantially reduce the risk of transmission.  Even if you are using a condom on the toy make sure that you clean it after every use.  Most toys and aids feel better when used with a lubricant - but not all lubricants are the same and some can actually cause harm, water-based lubricants are best with most toys.

Cleaning Solutions

Antibacterial soap and warm water is a must for cleaning toys. Any toy has come in contact with blood,  should be washed in soap and water and then soaked in a solution of one part household bleach to nine parts water.  Remember to rinse well in clear water after to remove any of the cleaning residue.  There are also several commercial adult toy cleaning solutions that can be purchased that have been specially formulated to kill all bacteria and germs but preserve the life of the toys. .

Cyberskin

Cyberskin is extremely sensitive and should be cleaned following use with warm water and stored in a clean dry place.  Be sure to read the manufacturers instruction on how to care for these products.

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Silicone

Silicone is a very durable material so it can be easily cleaned with soap and water, boiling to disinfect will not harm it and it can even be placed on the top rack of the dishwasher.  Do make sure that the entire product is silicone and that it does not have any plastic parts.  Anything that is on the device that is not silicone could be damaged and in this particular case a cleaning with soap and water will be all that you can do.  Even though silicone is very durable it can crack and a crack can lead to a tear, so be careful with nails and teeth when you are handling silicone.

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Storage

No matter what the material might be, leather, rubber, silicone, etc., moisture, direct sunlight or excessive heat will cause damage.  Any product that has a battery should have the battery removed between usage to keep them from corroding and also from accidentally turning on and running down the batteries.

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Latex

It is important to know that latex can be severely damaged by anything that is oil or petroleum based.  Latex is primarily used in condoms and dental dams.  Use only water-based products with latex, store anything latex away from heat or direct sunlight and discard latex products after use. 

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Leather

Leather is a very difficult material to keep clean because of all the irregularities of the material.  To clean leather, first wash the edges with a strong foaming cleaner and a brush, then wipe down all of the surfaces with hydrogen peroxide and allow to dry.  Follow this by using saddle soap for an additional cleaning.  The last process is using a leather conditioner to restore it back to its natural finish.  The leather conditioner is an absolute must because without it the leather will begin to dry out and crack.  This process does not work on suede 

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Rubber Dildos, Plugs & Etc.

Rubber is a very porous material, so as previously discussed, the easiest way to keep them clean is with a condom.  Clean all rubber products after use with soap and warm water.  They need to also be rinsed well as the left over soap residue can cause damage to the rubber and also irritate the skin.

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Vibrators

There are two types of vibrators - waterproof and non-waterproof.  If you own the waterproof variety then the vibrator can easily be cleaned with soap and warm water.  If the vibrator is not waterproof then you have to be very careful not to get water in or around the motor or the batteries.  Don't ever immerse a non-waterproof vibrator in water.  If it is the hard plastic model, soak a cotton ball in rubbing alcohol to clean and then let it dry and air out.  Never use a non-waterproof vibrator under water and don't take an electric vibrator near the bathtub or any other body of water.  It can cause electric shock just like any other electrical appliance.