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Saturday, April 2, 2016

10 BlowJobTips



Recently I was surfing the Wild World Web and find this wonderful collection of wit.

It is from a website that I am enjoying exploring.

Basically the posting is as I found it. There are places where I have changed the wording to fit my blog.

Example: changing the word penis to Cock or to it more Man friendly.

I will post the link to the site at the end of this posting

How’s Your Head?:
The Intellectual Homosexual’s Top 10 Blow Job Tips

I’ve been teaching how to suck cock for 4+ years. I’ve been labeled a ‘blowjob expert’ in multiple environments (not by myself). And yet, I’ve never bothered to share any of this valuable wisdom on my blog? Well, shame on me!
The thing is, I think people assume that if you teach cock sucking, then you do a lot of it. And I do…enough. But I much prefer to be on the receiving end of this matter. And not a lot of people understand boundaries


1- ONLY DO IT IF YOU WANT TO! : I cannot emphasize this enough. I think a large percentage of people attend blow job workshops because they don’t like giving them, and think that somehow we can change that. And in some cases, we are able to help them find ways to make it more enjoyable for them. But I feel like a lot of people who are partnered with people with Cocks feel like they are obligated to give them head whether they want to or not, and while most of us love getting head, you are always in your right to say no. Because really…if you don’t want to give a blowie, no one is going to have a good time.


2- Find your angle: Cocks are like snowflakes. They are all unique and shaped a little differently. Some of them curve in less predictable directions, and navigating the twists and turns can make a world of difference in your blowjob experience. Oftentimes it is recommended that you angle yourself in a way that angles the curve down your throat to guide it further down, and this definitely can help. Another thing to consider though: Your tongue is soft and cushy. The roof of your mouth is hard and ridged. The frenulum is the most sensitive part of the cock. And while I can’t speak for everyone, I know mine would much prefer that tongue, even if it does mean less of my cock gets enveloped.


3- Switch up your speed: That jackhammer thing you see a lot of porn stars do? Where they shove the cock as far down their throat as the possibly can at rapid fire? That may look hot, but it doesn’t feel so great for all of us. Some like such speed demons, others would prefer a calm, sensual suck. A mix of the two is awesome at times. A word of warning though: if your blow job’s recipient says they’re about to come, that’s not the best time to change up your pace. That’s kind of mean, to be honest. If that’s what you’re going for, though, and all parties are consenting to your meanness, by all means, have at it.


4 –Gagging = You can gag if you want to: I have talked to so many people who want to get rid of their gag reflex. Not to be judgy, but I still think that’s weird. And a little creepy. Why not just put the thing in your mouth as deep as you want to, and stop? On the flip side, gagging can be really hot, both for you and your partner, as long as you’ve negotiated it (nonconsensual throat-fucking = kinda rude). Those feelings of ravenous lust are a wild ride that should be enjoyed, and what cock-owner isn’t going to love the idea of you wanting their cock in your mouth so much that you shove it in further than you can take and keep coming back for more??? HOTNESS.


5 -Don’t forget about you: You know what makes sucking a hot cock even more fun? Jacking off while you suck said hot cock! (I mean ‘jacking off’ in the gender neutral context here, btw.) Not only can playing with yourself enhance the experience for you, but it can also manifest some awesome facial expressions and sound effects.


6 -Mint is magic: Minty fresh breath is great for making out, but it can also lead to some awesome tingly sensations for penile pleasure! Try sucking a mint or chewing some minty gum pre-blowie to amp up your oral abilities! Other honorable mentions for sensation play: ice cubes, hot tea.


7 -Play with power: Sometimes a little power exchange can make the blow job experience more fun. For both of you! A lot of folks treat giving head as an automatically submissive activity, and if that’s your jam, by all means, go for it. But you can also be the top while going down. Take ownership of the cock. Boss the receiver around a bit. Fuck the patriarchy (?).


8 -Put on a show: The visual is just as important as the sensational. Think about your facial expressions, and the sounds your making (see #5 for inspiration.) Talk dirty to your partner (but please, not with your mouth full.)


9 -There are toys for that: Isn’t technology wonderful? Well, not always (guns, killer robots, drones, etc.) But in this case, it can be your friend. There are plenty of gadgets and gizmos a-plenty to power up your Cock play. A double-ended stroker can be an awesome addition, fully enveloping the shaft while you focus on the head with your mouth. There are also vibrating gadgets that can aid you in making that cock quiver!


10 -ASK!: There is no sex tip I can possibly offer that will be more helpful than simply “asking your partner what they like/how they like it.” It is my One Sex Tip to Rule Them All. Every body is unique, and no list or blog post or Cosmo article can tell you how your partner’s body works than they can. Exploration is fun. Communication is hot. Get down to it.

Of course, bodies are so beautiful and complex that no sex act can be condensed to such a short list, but I hope I’ve at least sparked some ideas into the heads of cock-lovers across the web. And please, feel free to share your own tips in the comments.
Happy blowing!


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This is a gay male porn blog.  If you are under 18 or 21 (depending on legal age where you are) or are offended by gay male porn, leave now and do not follow. More specifically its about cocksucking.

There is a lot more to life (and to my life) than cocksucking though you wouldn't know it by reading this blog. Keep it in perspective. After all, its only porn, designed as an exploration of one aspect of sexuality to get you off. Its fantasy. If you do any of the stuff I write about be aware of the risks including of diseases. Keep yourself and your partners safe at all times.

So, what is the pleasure quotient all about? Its about that most taboo of all subjects...sexual pleasure. Our body is capable of experiencing the most exquisite pleasure. When having consensual sex, the pleasure of both parties increases, while no one else's is diminished.

Being a cocksucker in the way that I write and reblog about is a very particular way of bringing pleasure to a Man and to the world, and of experiencing it yourself. It is not for everyone. I do not advocate it for anyone else. However, it happens to be what turns me on. The more I write this thing the more it fuels my reality and my fantasy. Some of its true, some of it just gets me off.

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1 comment:

  1. I like to have a hot drink and an ice cold drink handy when I suck cock. I alternate between the two. No complaints so far.

    I also love to be called "cocksucker" when I'm giving head. It's quite a turn on for me.

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