How To Use a Dildo – part 1 – draft

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Earlier I posted that I am putting together some training material for my ‘boy-pig in training’ to review so to help him understand dildos and how to use them for maximum satisfaction.

Posted below is the DRAFT of the 1^st section.

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How to Use a Dildo on a Man

What is a dildo?

Dildos are toys designed for penetration that don’t have motors and don’t vibrate.

An anal dildo is any dildo that has no sharp edges or seams and a flared base designed to prevent it from going all the way in. (note: the ER is no place to go to be fisted trying to get that dildo out of your bottoms ass.)

Over 1 million dildos are sold each year, and while it may seem like a lot, when you consider exactly how many uses these little (or not so little) guys have, you might start asking yourself why everybody doesn’t own one.

While it may not be to your taste, many dildos are created for purely ornamental purposes. From the downright beautiful to the dangerously massive – some things are just for show.

Large rubber dildos that stand proudly at 3 feet tall should be used as playroom decor.

Dildos are made of several different materials. Most are made from some type of Latex. Some are made of glass and some out of metal. Glass dildos are usually used by Lesbians and the metals ones are designed for men.

Anal dildos are available in every size imaginable (from a pinky finger to a large fist and more).

      

Determine which your bottom prefers.

Does he want depth or does he want width?

This will help selecting your group of dildos. More on this later…

Getting started…

Find a bottom pig who is ready for you to fill him full of your toys.

Always Remember

·         Not all men into getting fucked by huge cocks are into getting fucked by huge dildos.

·         Not all men into dildos are into getting fisted.

·         Not all men into fisting are into dildos. Some just want the Top to bury his hand deep inside them and take them for a wild ride.

·         Not all men who say they are into dildos know what they are doing.

Some can be very experienced, others can be virgins. Some are liars and the good men into dildos are real Ass pigs. They know what it is all about…

Try to find out where your ass play bottom fits into the wonderful world of dildos

Never stop communicating with the asshole you are about to stuff full.

Knowledge...
Get to know your dildo-bottom's ass anatomy.
This section in under construction

Starting out…

The one important thing is to make sure the bottoms butt is clean.

Excess shit can cause problems you do not need during this experience.

Next make sure you and the bottom have an understanding of what is about to happen.

Make sure he really wants you to take his asshole on a wild ride he should never forget.

Then he needs to decide what position works best for him.

On his back,

on all fours,

laying on his side or

flat on his belly.

Standing up or bent over the edge of the bed works too.

Then if available, laid back in a sling with his ass ready for the ride.

Make sure your nails are smooth and your bottom has poppers if he needs or wants them.

Latex gloves should be worn for safety.

Now check the collection of dildos you have selected for your bottom to enjoy.

Always make sure you have a good opener and a good selection for gradually opening his ass up for the next larger size latex cock.

Make sure all of the dildos are clean and burr free.

Let the bottom pick a few of the selection if he is interested. Most likely he will pick a few larger size ones that he most likely will not be able to take. But that is OK. They don’t all fit all the time.

Now it is time to get the bottom to relax. Get him ready for the ride on the 'Dildo Express'

Based on the bottom here are a few suggestions to help relax his asshole.

Bury your face in his ass crack and give his asshole a good rimming. Tongue fuck his sloppy hole some. On that hole as deep as you can.

Slowly take and work a lubed up finger into the puckered asshole and play around gently.

Always wear gloves when needed.

How experienced your bottom is will determine how much coaching you will need to give him.

More fingers can be added as he is able to relax and take them. Never force them in the first time playing with the bottom’s asshole. Save that for later when playing out a scene.

Dildo entry…

Grease up the smallest of the dildos. The one you selected to open his asshole first.

Be sure the dildo is already clean and free of any burs or sharp seam lines.

Cover that dildo with a clean condom before applying the lube.

Use plenty of lube on the asshole and the dildo.

One main thing to remember is to use plenty of lubricate. Commercial lubes, Crisco and j-lube are the best. Never use lubricates designed for cars, trucks or motors.

When using a dildo on your bottom, be sure to go slow at first and be gentle.

Take your time and make sure both you and your dildo bottom are enjoying it.

Keep a good watch on the bottom facial expressions and the noises he makes.

Press the head of the dildo to the bottoms asshole.

When selecting the ‘opener’, try to select a dildo with a somewhat pointed head. Not a blunt one.

Example:

Pointed head

Blunt head

Gently apply pressure until it sides in.

If there is too much resistance first take a few deep breaths. Then have the bottom push his asshole as if he was trying to take a shit. While his asshole is pushed out and puckered, push the head of the dildo inward.

Now pause a few seconds and watch the bottoms face.

Let him get use to having the dildo inside of him. If needed tell him to take a few more deep breaths and to relax his whole body down to just his asshole.

You should be able to tell when you can proceed.

Once his asshole has accepted the entry into him, slowly feed more of the dildo in.

You will develop your own style for initial entry into a strange asshole.

Keep watch of his facial expressions, sounds and body movement.

Reminder… Never force the dildo in or deeper unless the bottom is relaxed and ready.

Pay attention to him at all times.

As time goes, you can pick up the speed and depth of the fucking. Follow his lead by how he reacts.

TO BE CONTINUED....